Being 'cute' alone isn't enough to make people fall this deep.
When looking at social media,
there are people who cannot be explained by the word 'cute' alone.
Of course, they are attractive.
But they possess 'something' that draws people in even more.
Before I know it, I find myself watching them over and over.
Even when I try to pull away, I end up coming back.
It is perhaps closer to
a 'sensation that stirs your emotions'
rather than a simple romantic feeling.
What is truly dangerous is 'someone who moves your emotions'.
People don't fall deeply into a trap based on a sense of security alone.
Rather,
feeling a little jealous
wanting to possess them exclusively
having your feelings stirred up
being curious even though you know it's bad
there are times when you are strongly drawn to such 'instability'.
Even in psychology,
'the greater the emotional swing, the more likely an object is to remain in memory'
is what is said.
In other words,
'emotional change' is more addictive than security.
People who draw others in have common traits
In particular, those who strongly attract others share common characteristics.
1. Jealousy actually fuels the fire
Normally, jealousy is a painful emotion.
However,
sensing someone else
the feeling of being taken away
the inability to possess them exclusively
Some people find stimulation in these situations.
This is because the mix of "possessiveness" and "anxiety" causes emotions to sway intensely.
2. Being depended on makes it impossible to leave
"I want to be needed."
This emotion is quite powerful.
being sought after
being relied upon
being told you can't leave
When that happens,
the other person's presence becomes impossible to get out of your head.
3. Attracted to the sense of immorality
"I know it's wrong"
Many people are attracted to that very feeling itself.
The more it's forbidden, the more curious you become.
The more unconventional the relationship,
the more strongly it remains in your memory.
This is because the brain recognizes it as 'stimulation'.
A 'kind person' isn't always the strongest
Of course, kindness is important.
But in reality,
the 'type that wrecks your emotions'
is someone some people are strongly attracted to.
Having your emotions stirred
Being pushed and pulled around
Finding yourself thinking about them before you know it
The more someone is like that, the longer they stay in your memory.
Which type are you weak against?
Depending on the person,
the emotions that make you fall deep are different.
For example,
The type that burns with jealousy
The type that is weak when someone depends on them
The type that wants to be controlled
The type that is attracted to a sense of immorality
and so on.
You have 'emotional habits' you aren't even aware of yourself.
Finally
There are feelings that cannot be explained by 'like' alone.
For some reason, I can't forget.
For some reason, I'm drawn in.
Even though I want to pull away, I find myself looking again.
The reason for that,
is not the appearance,
“because your emotions are being moved”
might be it.
If you're curious,
it might be interesting to diagnose what kind of emotional type you are weak against.