The answer is always held by the client (or by yourself when coaching yourself)
The secret to having your life change dramatically just by "deciding" for yourself♡
"Even if someone tells me, I can't seem to change myself..." "Even if I know it's good, I can't keep up the action..."
Have you ever worried about things like that? Actually, I was the same way.
The reason I couldn't move no matter how much "sound advice" I heard
No matter how many times I was told "The early bird catches the worm," I could never wake up early. But, at one point, I started waking up naturally.
That wasn't because someone told me to, but because I decided for myself, 'There is a morning meeting I really want to attend! I will definitely participate!'
Actually, this was the same for my daughter. My daughter, who couldn't clean her room no matter how much I asked, finished cleaning as if by magic the moment she decided for herself, "I'll do it!"
What on earth happened inside our hearts?
Does the subconscious hate being "ordered"!?
From the perspective of brain science and the subconscious, there is a convincing reason.
Our subconscious (the unconscious realm) instinctively dislikes being controlled by others, such as being told "do this" or "you should do that." Even if you think an outsider's advice is a "good idea" with your conscious mind, your subconscious feels like it is being "forced to do it" and puts on the brakes.
Conversely, the subconscious begins to provide powerful backup for 'things you decided yourself.' When the answer comes from within yourself, such as 'I want to do it!' or 'I will do it!', the brain's filter (RAS) switches, and the energy to achieve it begins to overflow.
What I value in coaching
In the coaching I am currently fully committed to, there is a mindset I value most.
The answer is always held by the client (sometimes it is in the subconscious)
My role is not to teach solutions or force answers out. It is to accompany and support the process where the client notices the "true answer" within themselves and decides for themselves, "I want to do this!"
To access information in the subconscious, I ask high-quality questions repeatedly and sometimes provide feedback.
By having a coach, you can access areas you cannot dig into on your own, and sometimes a rewriting of the subconscious occurs.
A paradigm shift (a change in values or beliefs) occurs.
When that happens, the client will automatically be able to head straight toward the goal they want to reach.
Precisely because the client is using their precious time to face themselves, I believe in and watch over them as they take action and achieve their goals through their own power.
Relationships with family and those close to you will also improve
If you find yourself wanting to "help" or "change" your husband, your children, or someone dear to you, there is something I would like you to try.
That is to engage with them by "believing in them and waiting for them to find the answer for themselves."
Hold back your advice and try believing in the other person's strength. Listen to them with 100 percent focus and ask, "What do you want to do?"
When a person decides for themselves, feels convinced, and takes action, that becomes the first step toward a "miracle" for them.
A message for you
"The answer is within you."
What do you truly want to do? What is holding you back? When you can deeply understand yourself,
both you and your relationships with those around you will become better and better. I am convinced of this.
Why not believe in your own infinite potential and take a step forward? By having a coach walk alongside you, you can access your subconscious. I will support your "life of never giving up" with all my might!