[Secret] Emigrating abroad with zero English. The "3 small habits" that changed my life as a salaryman

Hello.
I am a former "at-my-limit" salaryman who used to sigh every morning while swaying on a crowded train, wondering, "Is this really all there is to my life?"

This may be sudden, but aren't you carrying an "invisible weight" right now?

"I want to quit my job, but I'm too worried about living expenses to make a move."
"I'm scared of getting older just like this, but I don't know what to do."
"I'm exhausted in both mind and body, yet I even feel guilty about resting."

I understand that feeling all too well.
Because I was once in that exact same place.

Work was busy. But it wasn't that I hated the company, and my boss was a good person.
That is precisely why, without finding a "decisive reason to quit," I lived by deceiving myself, masking my vague anxiety and my wearing-down heart.

As for where I am now, having been that person:
I am living abroad with my wife and 7-year-old daughter.

"Wow! So you were already fluent in English, right?"
I am often asked that, but
when we decided to emigrate, my wife's and my English skills were absolutely "zero."
The only one who could speak English was our then 7-year-old daughter.
Even when shopping at a local supermarket, we had to have our daughter interpret for us. It's pathetic, but it's the truth.

Even so, a path opened up.
My life, which had been at its limit both mentally and physically due to a chronic illness, began to move quietly, yet dramatically, from a certain point on.

Today, I will share the "3 small habits" that I secretly practiced even "before quitting my job" that turned my life around.

This is not about willpower.
It is a highly reproducible "way to rewrite your brain" that anyone can do, incorporating perspectives from neuroscience, psychology, and quantum mechanics.

By the time you finish reading, your heavy heart should feel suddenly lighter, and you should see a glimmer of hope that "maybe I can do it too."

Habit 1: Creating a "blank space" to stop the brain's alarm system

The first is "daily meditation."

Did you think, "Meditation again?"
But there is a powerful neuroscientific basis for this.

When we feel anxious about the future, a part of the brain called the "amygdala" keeps sounding an alarm like a fire detector. "We don't have enough money!" "What if we fail!"

In a state where this alarm is constantly ringing, a person's IQ drops, and they become unable to make correct judgments.
I was in exactly this "brain panic state" at the time.

So, I started meditating for just a few minutes a day, focusing on my breathing.
If you continue this, the excitement of the amygdala calms down, and a "blank space" is created in your heart.

Psychologist Viktor Frankl said:
"Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response."

Even if something unpleasant happens, don't react immediately; take a step back and look at the world.
The moment this "composure" was born, the steering wheel of my life returned to my hands. It was because I had this calmness that I was able to make the big decisions that followed.

Habit 2: Changing "don't have" to "have" (The function of the RAS)

The second is to focus on "The Having."

The brain has a function called the RAS (Reticular Activating System). This is a "filter that only collects information you are interested in."

I used to focus only on what I "didn't have": "I don't have money," "I don't have time," "I don't have confidence." Since the RAS is efficient, it started gathering evidence from the real world, saying, "Look, you don't have this either," creating an increasingly impoverished reality.

So, I consciously started looking at what I "have."

"My family is laughing today, I have happiness."
"Thanks to having a company, I have the peace of mind of a monthly salary."

Strangely enough, the moment I changed my vibration (emotional energy) from "lack" to "abundance," the flow of money in reality began to change. It was also around this time that my chronic illness began to improve.
The world didn't change. The "world my brain was seeing" changed.

Habit 3: "Pre-experiencing the future" to choose a parallel world

The third is the habit of "recalling memories of the future," which also connects to the concepts of quantum mechanics and "Tafti."

Many people "worry" about a future they haven't seen yet.
But I decided to "set" the future.

From the time when moving abroad was still just a dream, I vividly imagined "myself feeling the breeze abroad and laughing with my family," and I pre-experienced and savored the emotions of that time.

In the world of quantum mechanics, it is said that "the moment the observer directs their consciousness, a wave (possibility) becomes a particle (reality)."
If you think, "It's impossible anyway," an impossible reality is confirmed, and if you get excited thinking, "It would be great if this happened," the door to that parallel world opens.

I don't want to live a life apart from my family. I want to show my daughter the wide world.
Fueling myself with that thought, every night I would talk to my future self, saying, "Good job, that was amazing." By doing so, my brain began to recognize that future as "reality."

You don't have to force yourself to quit your job

To you, who have read this far, there is one thing I want to convey most.

That is, "You don't have to force yourself to quit your job to eliminate your current anxiety."

I myself spent two years before making the decision to quit my job.
Precisely because I didn't hate the company or my boss, I didn't want to "quit as if running away," but rather take the form of "graduating because I was prepared."

What is important is a "state of mind" that is not swayed by location, and the "realistic preparation" that supports it.
You can change how you work, eliminate anxiety, and move once you can see the future. I am convinced of that.

So far, I have talked about the three "mental habits" that changed my life.
Just by practicing these, your daily life will surely become brighter and lighter.

However, I will confess honestly here.

Just by adjusting my mentality, I could not have achieved the "miracle" of taking my family and emigrating abroad with zero English skills.

There is one more decisive "secret" to why I was able to quit my job without anxiety.

That is,
"How I specifically organized my assets and drew up a roadmap until retirement with a clear brain adjusted by meditation"
This is the super-practical part.

Many people stumble here. Because even if their "feelings" change, their "reality (money and life)" does not catch up.

⭐︎ How did a mere salaryman create emigration funds and future peace of mind?
⭐︎ Why was a family with zero English able to take the leap, convinced that "it would be okay"?
⭐︎ How did I perform specific asset management and preparation to turn the "fear" of quitting a job into "excitement"?

Only when this "realistic strategy" and "inner transformation" were set together did my life shift significantly.

If you,
don't want to end it with "that was a good story,"
want to "seriously steer the rudder of your life,"
and "want to obtain a future where you can laugh with your family without depending on a company,"
please read the rest of this.

From here on, I will reveal without hiding the "specific roadmap to retirement and freedom" that I practiced over two years and actually used to achieve emigration abroad.
Because it contains very candid content, I want only those who are serious about changing their lives to read it.

"Preparation to change your life while remaining a salaryman" can be started from today, from right here.
I would be happy if I could share the "continuation of the miraculous scenery" I saw with you next.