The Secret of Being Loved

Hello, this is Maru.

Through my experience of changing from being super negative, I share the secrets to living comfortably and how to embrace your true self.

The other day, I talked about how when you put positive thoughts into words,
you become surrounded by the same atmosphere as those words.
I talked about that.

At that time, Ryo-yan-san
shared this episode with me.

When I was a child,

'You shouldn't be a picky eater!'
'It's delicious, so try eating it!'

I was told that.

Even if I was told it was delicious,
it didn't look delicious to me at all.

But, when I saw people around me eating it looking like it was delicious,
there were times I wanted to eat it too.

Popular shops
don't need to advertise extensively
for people to gather there, right?

That's because there's a reason to want to go to that shop.

There is food you want to eat.
There are staff members you want to meet.

You want to pay money to such a shop.

When doing homework,
even if you are told,
'Study!'
you end up thinking,
'Why do I have to do this?'

However, if parents are always reading books in front of them,
it seems children also feel like studying along with them.
(Though it's not guaranteed)

Wanting to meet
Wanting to eat
Wanting to go
Wanting to study
Wanting to do your best
Wanting to support
Wanting to do

'Wanting to do something'—it seems that
you can act naturally like that ♪

If you want to become a person who is loved,
it seems it would be good to become someone people 'want to love'.

If you become that way,
even if you don't ask the other person to love you,
you will be showered with love.

Look, little children,
you just want to give them a big hug, don't you?

It is because their reactions are cute.
Because their smiles are cute.
Because their gestures are cute.

Beloved people
engage in behavior that makes them loved.

That is why they are 'easy to love'.

If you imitate that,
you too will transform into a beloved person♪

< Maru's (unauthorized) Oshi-katsu ( •̀ ω •́ )y >

Many beloved people possess a strong sense of gratitude.

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