This order works.

Hello, I'm Maru.

Through my experience of changing from being super negative, I share the secrets to living comfortably and how to gain a sense of self.

Do you know this playground equipment?

I don't know the name, but
children can jump around inside
to play.

When I was a child, it was on the roof of a department store, and
I looked forward to playing inside.

But the wind when entering was too strong, so
I couldn't easily get in.

Entering among strangers was
also a bit scary.
(I've been timid since back then)

I always watched the children jumping around inside
from the outside.

Then one day,

"Just get in there already!"

my parent said, and shoved me in.

I, I'm going to die...

I thought for two seconds.

It was so fun inside that I thought it was heaven (๑˃̵ᴗ˂̵)

When I went to the ocean for the first time, too,
"Try going in!" and
my parent shoved me in.

I was looking at the incoming waves
and feeling anxious, but
once I was in, it was no big deal.

It became fun. lol

When I was a child,
I feel like it wasn't about starting after I could do it, but rather
that I just tried things without knowing anything and
ended up being able to do them.

However, as an adult,
this order gets reversed, doesn't it?

I sometimes hear people say,
"I'm thinking of doing X once I become Y," and
I've thought that way too.

For example, "Once I can write well, I'll start a note," or

"Once I can speak English, I'll go on an overseas trip," or

"Once I've saved X amount of money, I'll start a business."

With this, it's hard to take action, isn't it?
(I couldn't start a note either...)

It's just like saying,
"Once I can swim, I'll go into the ocean."

However, if you want to learn how to swim,
you have no choice but to practice in the water.

I understand the feeling of wanting to be cautious, but
action comes first.

As for the rest, I think you can just learn as you go.

So,
if there is something you are thinking, "I'll do that once I become X,"
please just go ahead and take action.
Go for it.

That order works better, you know♪

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