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Hello, I'm Maru.

Through my experience of changing from being super negative, I share the secrets to living comfortably and how to embrace your true self.

You know how you get nervous because you're afraid of failure,
right?

I couldn't overcome that either.

Back then, I would remember the past and...

“I should have done this differently...”
“I should have chosen a different path back then...”

I would just mope around.

I couldn't forgive my past failures,

Why...
Why...

I would blame myself.

I feel like I was pushing myself even harder
back then.

If I try something new and fail,
I'll just have one more regret.
↓
I don't want that.
↓
I become afraid to try.

That's because I was stuck in a negative cycle.

Conversely, people who take on challenges without fear of failure
fully accepted their past failures and were grateful for them.

“Thanks to that failure, I learned a new way of doing things.”
“That rock-bottom experience is the reason I am who I am today.”

It's scary to take on new challenges, but
if you can be grateful for the past,
you can overcome your fear and move forward.

In that case, what would your future self think
of your “current failure”?

Try to imagine it.

“Failure? I can't forgive that!”

I think there are very few people
who would think of those words.

Most people would think,

“It's okay to fail, so let's give it a try♪”
“You'll regret it if you don't, so let's take on the challenge♪”

I think those are the words that would come to mind.

Your future self will surely say,
"Thank you for taking on the challenge♡"
.

Bill Gates once said,
"The biggest risk is not taking any risk."
.

It is true that if you do nothing, you won't fail, but nothing will change either.

That, in itself, might lead to your greatest regret.

In fact, that was the case for me as well.

The day I took that first step, trembling with fear.
I can tell that version of myself "well done" now.

So, you will surely be okay, too.

Please try moving toward the path that makes your future self smile.

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for reading until the end.

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