Tips for Being Liked by Others

Hello, I'm Maru.

Through my experience of changing from being super negative, I share secrets for living comfortably and ways to embrace your true self.

“That person often gets a lot of help from those around them.”
“It’s nice that they have so many people supporting them.”

It’s enviable, isn't it,
to be someone who is liked by those around them?

When people gather and you can even hear laughter,
you think, “That looks like fun.”

“How can I become popular?”

You might have thought about that
at least once.

This kanji taught me the answer.

【Popular Person】

It seems that a “person” who distributes “good energy” to others is called a “person” who is 【popular】.

The reason is that
energy is easily contagious.

You know, when your boss walks into the room
with a grumpy face in the morning,
everyone in the room
is suddenly wrapped in a tense atmosphere.

When someone you are eating with
says, “This tastes bad,”
even what you are eating
starts to taste less delicious.

When you are in a car driven by a friend
and you see them getting irritated and honking the horn,
you start to feel irritated yourself.

Because negative “energy” is highly contagious,
it only has a bad influence.

No matter how smart or high-ranking a person is,
if being with them makes you feel bad,
they aren't popular, are they?

Conversely, you can also distribute “good energy.”

“Fun”
“Happiness”
“Energy”
“Courage”
“Inspiration”

If you can distribute such wonderful “energy,”
the people around you will be happy.

To be liked by others,
it feels like you need some special ability,
but it seems that is not the case.

When you are with them, you feel happy and joyful.

When you are with them, you feel energized and courageous.

Popular people are those who
share such 'good vibes'.

Try thinking about what kind of feelings
you can gift to the person in front of you.

If you share good vibes,
you will find yourself becoming popular before you know it♪

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