Quick Self-Introduction | Renewal (November 2024)
My name is Aguri.
Alongside my main job as a fortune teller, I write articles on note to support mothers of children who refuse to attend school, and I also post on X.
My own child refused to attend school in the past, so I am also an experienced 'mother of a non-attending child'.
I post articles focusing on the realistic feelings and daily life from that time, hoping to help people understand what life is like for a mother in that situation.
Table of Contents
About Me
What I Want to Write About on note
About Me
✧My Characteristics
I am a free spirit...o○ I am often seen as serious, but I am surprisingly not.
That said, I didn't have the courage to live unseriously, so I was good at appearing serious (*‘∀‘)
When people sensed that, they often told me, 'That's surprising.'
It sounds like I'm a fraud, but I don't remember ever saying, 'I am serious.'
I used to think I was an optimist at heart, but as I've gotten older, I've realized that's not enough.
People often say it's good to be positive, but I don't think so. I feel that at some point in life, it is necessary for someone who has experienced negativity to have the experience of becoming positive.
I believe that is why the trial of my child refusing to attend school came to me. It felt as if I were being told that my soul needed to grow for me to become my true self.
✧Work
The first job I ever had was in finance.
I was employed as a bank clerk at a local financial institution.
After that, I earned a bookkeeping certification and took a job in accounting.
It was a super-realistic job, the complete opposite of my current work.
What I deal with now in my fortune-telling work is 'emotions' (kanjo).
Back then, it was 'accounts' (kanjo)... haha.
After getting married, I was a full-time housewife for 11 years, and then I held various jobs while raising my children.
Since I couldn't work long hours, I spent a long time working in call centers and as a hospital telephone operator, jobs that were easy to finish on time.
And after that, as if guided, I became a fortune teller.
By that time, I was convinced that my strength was "receiving feelings while conversing," so I became a telephone fortune teller who listens to people.
Reading the other person's emotions is something I feel not just through words, but also through pauses, tone of voice, and volume, so for me, it feels easier to perceive things through voice information alone than by looking at the person's face.
Telephone work involves repeating similar things.
I elicit the necessary information in a short time and convey what the other person wants in words.
What do they need?
What kind of situation is that person in right now?
It may seem like monotonous work, but it is actually not.
The foundation of my current skills is my work as a hospital telephone operator.
Especially with emergency calls, it was necessary to read the situation of the person on the other end. Our job was to figure out what kind of approach would get them to tell us what was needed in a short amount of time.
There were times when a patient would laugh and say they were fine, but the affected area was actually in a dangerous state.
Also, there were times when I would listen to the condition of a patient who called in saying their symptoms were painful or distressing, and after relaying it to the nurse, they would be told to "wait and see without coming in for an examination."
There were also times when I was unsure which department a symptom belonged to. Since walk-in patients can sometimes be in a race against time, I had to quickly connect them to the appropriate department before the call was cut off.
Looking back, the work of the latter half of my life has these two concepts:
・Conveying through words
・Helping people
For me, "words" have always been both a tool for conveying feelings and a challenge.
Through these jobs, I learned that people's feelings change significantly depending on what words are used and the order in which they are spoken.
This is proving to be very useful now as I write on note.
What I want to write about on note from now on
1. Worries, conflicts, and realizations of a mom with a child who refuses to go to school
2. How to use tarot for self-divination to heal yourself as a mom
3. About fortune-telling and mental health issues
4. Things I want to write down and keep
Notice
📚 Paid magazine has started!
✤ This is a magazine for those who want to read my articles in one place.
Articles will be added to the magazine.
I plan to add about three per month.
With the initial purchase price, you can continue to read all paid articles.
The price may increase as the number of articles grows. If you are considering purchasing, it is more economical to do so early on.
The themes will be based on school refusal issues and a mother's life, but I intend to keep it engaging by incorporating content that approaches school refusal from different perspectives, such as work-related topics and the "mind."
I will focus on the quality of writing and providing value so that the content resonates with readers more than ever before.
I also post on X with an account that supports moms of children who refuse to go to school
Aguri @ Mom of child refusing school / Empathy Support Fortune Teller (@Kyoukanmama) / X (twitter.com)
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