[New Year's Eve Countdown Article (11:00)] Choose Your Words Carefully
The words you use reflect your actions and attitudes and influence your way of thinking, so by consciously practicing changing negative words into positive ones, you can change your language, because if you don't consciously change them, your words won't change on their own^^;
The first thing to be careful about in your choice of words is not to use insensitive or crude language.
Since your words reveal your character and feelings, they also serve as a check on your own state of mind.
Why not make it a habit to objectively check what kind of words you use in your daily life, and instead of letting your guard down just because no one points it out, think about how you use your words?
If you only act based on immediate, temporary matters or personal gain and loss, you will not gain trust^^;
Even small things, if accumulated over a long period, should lead to great trust and confidence.
Confidence and trust cannot be obtained immediately, but once you have them, they become a great asset(^^)
Words are treasures.
Let's enrich the dictionary in our hearts♪(^^)
[Introduction (Preamble)]
If you think about how you feel about people who always use selfish and inconsiderate ways of speaking, or passive and negative words, the points you should keep in mind regarding your own word choice will become clear.
It is important to have the perspective of thinking about how you would feel about your own way of speaking if you were in the other person's shoes.
Until it becomes a habit, words won't change easily unless you consciously change them, so by consciously changing the words you use daily to bright and positive ones, your unconscious word choices will change, and your way of thinking will naturally change as well.
Also, while your feelings are expressed in your words, conversely, you can change your feelings by being conscious of the words you use, so by consciously controlling your feelings through the words you use, please try to keep in mind to use words that match the feelings you want to have.
People who are liked by others know how to use their words, don't they(^^)
When it says, 'Choose your words carefully,' you also need to support and care for yourself, because a single choice of words can change your relationship with others by 180 degrees, so be careful, okay^^;
[Main Text]
I think people are always searching for words while they live.
Both when they are happy and when they are unhappy.
Both when they want to convey something and when it doesn't get across.
And also to those who don't understand, and to those who cannot be reached.
That is why words are important, and the words you find may become something that supports your heart.
When you're feeling a bit down, or when something has got you feeling low.
I believe these words will surely encourage your heart.
[Postscript (Closing)]
Even if you are moved and influenced by something, it will end up being only temporary unless you consciously put something into practice.
Unless you practice with intention, you cannot make your way of thinking and your actions a habit, you know ^^;
Your mindset won't improve naturally either unless you practice, so try to find words that strongly appeal to your heart and make an effort to use those words frequently.
Making that a habit is the secret to bringing miracles into your life!
If you continue to use positive and affirmative words, your feelings will surely become positive, so let's start by using the greatest tool closest to us—our words—to shift our mood!
The words you speak can be changed right now, depending on your own will, and because words have the power to influence your life, this awareness is the best weapon to lead your life to victory (^^)
Humbert Humbert - "It's the Same Wherever You Are"
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