Interpreting "Is there a problem with the person being bullied?" from the perspective of the Law of Attraction...
Hello, I am Dr. Bullied.
Regarding the much-debated topic of
is there a problem with the person being bullied?
I would like to interpret it from the perspective of the Law of Attraction.
I was bullied...
Why?
Well, surely there must be a reason on the side of the person being bullied, right?
Is that really so?
Speaking from the perspective of the Law of Attraction,
there is a cause on the side of the person being bullied.
That's so unreasonable!
To give an easy-to-understand example,
I, Dr. Bullied, myself
have been a victim of a random street attack.
Are you saying that this random attacker was also my responsibility? (I'm outraged!!)
Being punched by a total stranger I had never met.
I was just walking along.
I had no fault whatsoever.
There's no way that's my responsibility!
That's what anyone would normally think.
But even in a case like this,
it was actually something I invited, speaking from the perspective of the Law of Attraction.
Let me explain.
At the time, I hated myself.
I'm the kind of person everyone hates.
I have no value.
I'm an eyesore, and my very presence makes people uncomfortable.
I was thinking things like that about myself.
That's why I was punched.
The same Law of Attraction technique was being used regarding bullying.
Someone like me...
This! This right here.
This self-deprecation and sense of worthlessness is the cause of being bullied.
Because I think to myself, "Someone like me..."
I attract the reality of being told, "Someone like you..."
In reality, it's not that I'm hurt because someone else said, "Someone like you,"
but rather I'm hurt because someone else is saying what I already think about myself: "Someone like me."
Even if someone were to say to me, "You're trash,"
if I truly and deeply believe in my heart, "I am wonderful," I wouldn't be hurt.
In this regard, bullying does not occur.
So, for those who are being bullied, instead of exercising self-responsibility in the sense of blaming yourself and thinking the cause lies within you, I want you to check if you don't happen to dislike yourself, and if so, try to exercise self-responsibility in a constructive way by deciding to stop doing that.
Stand tall without relying on external evaluations such as
other people, achievements, grades, titles, or the number of friends you have.
Actually,
if you get into the habit of
having your existence guaranteed by
evaluations from others,
reactions from others,
or the number of likes you get,
you will be unstable for the rest of your life.
Other people are busy with their own lives,
so they won't always treat you with respect.
If they are in a bad mood, they will turn on you in an instant.
Therefore,
I, Dr. Ijimerarerino, think it is better to get into the habit of deciding your own value as early as possible.
Decide your own value,
(and positively at that!)
It's okay, it's okay,
just by thinking "I am wonderful," you don't need to prove it to anyone.
Just being alive is wonderful.
I mean,
everyone has value because their perspectives are different.
The interpretation of the world that I see through my filter from this place where I am is one of a kind.
That is its value.
Are you twisted?
Not at all,
having that kind of perspective is super unique and great!
That's what it's all about.
Bad personality?
It's fantastic!
That dark side of yours.
Have a dark past of suffering from middle-school syndrome?
Delicious!
Too delicious.
Did you do something terrible?
It's okay, it's okay,
that kind of thing happens often.
I'm ugly.
Are you an idiot?
You're a beauty from the Yayoi period.
You're a beauty that transcends time and space.
The truth is,
you should be saying these things to yourself, but instead...
I hate myself
I am worthless
I am no good anyway
I am useless
I am not interesting
I have no redeeming qualities.
You tend to think like this.
You are constantly dissing yourself.
Stop it!
Just stop doing this!
To repeat myself again,
if you interpret it from the perspective of the Law of Attraction,
because you have these feelings at your core,
they are reflected in the outside world
and return to you in the form of bullying.
If you have any idea what I'm talking about,
you just need to be easier on yourself.
Even if you are bullied by others,
be your own ally.
This is important.
If you have time to criticize yourself,
please think about your good points and grin.
First, become your own best friend.
No matter what anyone says,
decide your own value yourself.
It's okay even if you're not okay.
You might be beaten up and worn out,
and not okay.
But even then, you are still okay.
I think that is what self-acceptance is.
Only loving yourself when you are perfect, in good shape, and healthy is terrible. Are you a traitor! I think.
It is precisely when you are sick or when things are not going well that love for yourself is important, and I think it is a chance to build a relationship with yourself.
If you build a solid relationship and bond with yourself,
things will be easier later. Your life will turn into paradise.
No matter what the situation is outside, knowing that you will always be your own ally
is a great sense of security.
Cherish yourself.
In the end, I think this is what true self-responsibility is.