○ Blaming others makes your luck slip away—The 'power to act for yourself' that May 24th teaches us

Getterz Iidaselects words that fit each of the 365 days, delivering messages that make your days a little
more positive every day. It is a book that reminds you with
gentle words of important things that you
tend to forget in your daily life.reminding you
of them.

I myself also update this content daily in the hope of gaining
small insights in my everyday life. I would be happy if you could read it quietly
at the start of your day.

This time, I will introduce the overview and key points of “Getterz Iida’s 365 Days of Stories to Improve Your Luck”
for May 24th, “It’s just pathetic to blame others”
.

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■ “Blaming others” lowers your own luck

When something doesn't go well happens, we sometimes end up thinking, “It’s the other person’s fault,” “The environment is bad,” or “Society is to blame.”

Of course, there are things you cannot control on your own. However, if you blame everything on others, even if it makes you feel a little more at ease, you yourself will not change at all.

In this day’s message, it is said that continuing to “think in terms of blaming others” will, as a result,
lower your own luck.

■ Lucky people think about “what to do next”

The luckier a person is, the more they think about
“what I can do myself” rather than “who is to blame.”

When a failure or trouble occurs, by thinking,
“How should I act next?” or “Is there anything I can improve?”
, they are likely able to change the flow little by little.

This is different from blaming yourself. I believe it is an
“attitude of agency” that says,
“If I take action, I can change the future.”

■ People who only make excuses are prone to losing trust

The people around you are watching more closely than you think.

If you blame others every time something happens, you may be perceived as someone who “doesn’t grow” or “is someone who runs away from responsibility.”

Conversely, people who try to improve things positively even when they fail naturally
gain trust.

Work luck and relationship luck may both be nurtured by “trust.”

■ Small actions change you

If you ever feel like blaming someone else,
try thinking of just one thing: 'So, what can I do about this?'

Those small, repeated efforts will likely change your way of thinking little by little.

Writing down in a diary or memo
'Things I almost blamed others for today' and 'The action I chose at that time'
can also be a way to
notice your own growth.

■ Today's realization

Blaming others won't change reality.
However, by changing your own actions, you might be able to
change the flow of the future.

'What can I do?'
I believe that having that perspective is the first step toward moving your luck.

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