Love begins the moment you express it: A message of courage for February 14th

Getterz Iida has compiled a book that
stays as close as possible to each of the 365 days of the year in
a single volume.
That book is “Getterz Iida’s Stories to Improve Your Luck for 365 Days”.

It is a book that reminds you with gentle words of important things that you
tend to forget in your daily life.
I myself read it a little bit every day because I want to gain
new insights in my daily life.
At the start of the day, I would be happy if you could keep it close to your heart.

Today, I will summarize the overview and key points from February 14th, “A love that cannot be confessed is not a true love.”

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■ Overview (What kind of story is it?)

The message for February 14th presents a
quite clear perspective.

“A ‘pretend crush’ where you cannot express your feelings is not yet a true love.”
That is the way of thinking.

The time spent thinking about someone alone without being able to confess or express your affection is not “love,” but
just a period of delusion.
Love starts the moment you express your feelings to the other person, and only then does the relationship between the two of you begin to move
—that is what is said.

Not confessing because you are afraid of being rejected is a state of protecting yourself rather than the other person.
If you are serious about liking someone, you should be able to move past the embarrassment and fear, is the message included here.

■ Points (Tips for practice)

・If you swallow your feelings because you are “afraid of breaking the current relationship,” love will never begin. Luck, too, will not move.

・Men should properly express “I like you” in words.
Women should also show their affection or give signs that make it easier for the other person to confess.
What is important is not “waiting,” but “taking action.”

・Even if it doesn’t go well, the experience itself of “having the courage to act because I truly liked them” will boost your own charm and luck.

Rather than the result of the love, how you accept yourself for having taken action.
I felt that the essence of this day lies there.

■ How to make the most of February 14th

If there is someone you have been thinking “I might like them” for a long time, try making today a day to
break down “how to express your feelings within this year” into
concrete actions.

・Make plans to meet
・Send a message
・Try writing the words you want to convey in a notebook

Even if you don't go as far as a confession right away,
"Thank you" or "I'm happy to see you", for example,
add one small word of affection.

Even just doing that,love moves one step from "fantasy" to "reality".

It is scary to summon the courage.
But,if you don't take action, nothing will begin.

On this day, February 14th,
may your love move forward, even if just a little.

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