Fun attracts people more than correctness | Message for July 5th
Getters Iida has compiled a message for each of the
365 days of the year into a single book. It is a book that reminds us with
important things we tend to forget in our daily lives, using gentle words
.
I myself want to gain new insights in my daily life, so I am
updating this series daily.
At the start of your day, I would be happy if you could read it quietly.
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■ July 5th: "If you live correctly, you won't be popular; if you live happily, you will be popular"
Today's theme is
a way of living that people like.
It is important to say the right things, but sometimes that alone is not enough to close the distance between people.
Conversely, people naturally gather around those who make them smile and feel at ease when they are together
.
Perhaps luck, too,
is attracted to such a bright and comfortable atmosphere.
■ Correctness alone does not move the heart
It is important to follow rules and correct mistakes.
However, if you focus only on conveying "correctness,"
you may give others a strict or unapproachable impression.
People are
attracted to
those who they feel are "fun to be with", not just those who speak the truth.
■ Fun is consideration for others
Living happily does not mean living unseriously.
Finding small joys in daily life, making others smile, and saying warm words are also forms of "fun"
.
Such a positive atmosphere expands your connections with people and becomes a
force that cultivates good luck.
■ Smiles invite good luck
"Stories to Improve Your Luck in 365 Days" is a book that helps you refine your small daily thoughts and actions.
For July 5th, why not make it a day where you value not just "correctness" but also
"fun"?
Enjoy yourself, and make the people around you smile even a little.
That accumulation will gradually
lead both your relationships and your luckin a positive direction.
■ Today's Question
Today, instead of "conveying what is correct," why not try focusing on
"making the other person smile"just once?
・Compliment the other person's good points.
・Express words of gratitude.
・Greet them with a smile.
Such small actions will deepen your connections with others and
should alsobrighten your own luck.
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