For those who are 'too tired from being too considerate.' Why you don't have to be kind to everyone | Sanmeigaku

At work, at home, or even with friends.

Before you know it, you're always walking on eggshells around someone.

That person seems a bit grumpy today.
Did I say something that bothered them?
I have to make sure I don't make them angry.

By staying on high alert like that all day,
you're already exhausted by the time you get home.

And yet, don't you blame yourself again, thinking,
'It's my fault for being too sensitive'?

To be honest, I'm the type who is overly considerate too.
Even as an appraiser, in my daily life,
I'm not such a 'perfect person'.

For example, there are people whose moods show on their faces, right?

The moment they arrive in the morning,
you can tell by the atmosphere that 'Ah, today is one of those days.'
So, everyone tries not to talk to them.

When someone like that is around,
you unconsciously stay on edge the whole time.
Even though they haven't done anything to you directly,
just by being there, they drain your energy.

This isn't because you are weak.
You are sensitive enough to notice changes in people's emotions.
That is a remarkable ability.

However—if you keep that ability
turned on 24 hours a day,
no one can handle it.


Do you ever experience things like this?

✓ When someone's mood changes, you think it might be your fault
✓ You swallow what you want to say and feel exhausted later
✓ You feel like you have to do something about the atmosphere in the room
✓ When you notice, your own feelings are always put on the back burner

If even one of these applies to you,
you are surely a kinder person than most.

However, there is just one thing.
There is someone I cannot bring myself to blame.

That is the person themselves who always seems grumpy.

Actually, when I was around 30,
there was a time when I was irritated by everything.

I'd like to think it wasn't that bad (laughs), but
I think the me back then was probably
making those around me walk on eggshells too.

There are times when people just can't help but be on edge.
When things don't go well, one after another,
you run out of patience and can't even stop yourself.

So, that grumpy person
might just be going through such a phase right now.

When you can think that way, strangely enough,
the feeling of blaming the other person,
and the feeling of blaming yourself, both become a little lighter.

Everyone has their own innate nature,
and the flow of life they are currently experiencing.

For you, who is too considerate.
And for that person who is being grumpy right now.

Neither one is at fault.

It's just that I want you to use that kindness of yours
for the people who are truly important to you.

Instead of wearing yourself out by being considerate to everyone,
'I will be considerate here, but I will gently draw a line here'
is something you can choose for yourself.

You don't have to let go of your kindness.
You just need to choose where to direct it.


If you are currently tired from being too considerate of others,

why not take a look at your own innate nature
and your current flow of life?🌿

In the free appraisal, I will tell you in text
how you tend to be overly considerate,
including where you are likely to accumulate fatigue.

It is not fortune-telling or psychic reading,
but a study of destiny deciphered from your date of birth.

You will be able to choose for yourself
'who to be considerate to' and 'who to draw a line with'.
I hope to be the gateway to that for you😊

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