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"You can move forward even if you're not perfect!" Small steps change the future

"I'll start once I'm properly prepared."

"I'll do it after I look into it a bit more."


……Before you know it, weeks have passed that way.
Have you ever had an experience like that, too?


I used to be like that, too.

My notebooks would fill up with dreams and plans, but I wouldn't actually take a single step forward.
It was like summer vacation homework that never actually begins.


But then, it suddenly occurred to me.
"Wait, when is 'perfect' actually supposed to arrive?"


🔑 The key to starting is "just a little bit"


When you seek perfection, the first step keeps getting further away.

You get stuck in a preparation loop of "it's not enough yet" or "just a little more..."
and you end up exhausted before you even start.


But when you think, "Let's just try a little bit first,"
the hurdle suddenly drops.


By deciding to "clean for just 10 minutes" or "write just one line,"
I became able to take action in a way that felt almost magical.


What helped me at that time was a digital timer.
The "beep" sound pushed me forward and became the signal to shake off the "perfection ghost."⌛



🏡 Housework edition: 5-minute increments make you feel like a hero

Toys scattered in the living room.
Back when I used to leave them alone, thinking "I'll do it all on my day off,"
I'd realize the weekend had become a dreaded day of major cleaning.

But when I set a timer for "just 5 minutes" and cleaned, it was surprisingly tidy.


Plus, my child was happy, saying, "Hey, the room feels bigger!" and
I felt a little bit like a hero.

By introducing MUJI Polyethylene Cases, I was able to tidy up small toys and stationery easily,
and the habit of "doing a little bit every day" became much easier.



💻 Work Edition: Making progress without being perfect

When creating documents, I used to agonize over "thinking of the perfect structure first,"
and before I knew it, I was sitting in front of my PC with a furrowed brow.

But when I started by just "jotting down what came to mind,"
a flow surprisingly emerged, and the document took shape.

It was the moment the "perfection ghost" sitting on my shoulders suddenly vanished.



🌸 Challenge Edition: A small post is a big step

The first time I posted on social media,
I was so nervous... I felt like I was "making a public confession"
and I wanted to tease myself for it.


But when I posted thinking, "It's enough if it reaches just one person,"
I received a comment of empathy saying, "I get it!"

I realized that even if it's not perfect, it can still resonate with people.



Small progress is a big step


Even big dreams are clumsy and a bit misshapen at first.

But by stacking those small steps,
you'll find they lead to results that exceed "perfection" before you know it.


That is why today's motto is this.

“You don't have to be perfect to move forward!”


Why don't you give it a try, too?



Next time preview


I'll write about the “secret switch” that helps you get moving even on days when you don't feel motivated.


A final word


Aiming for perfection is just like deciding when to put the strawberry on a cake.
The “final touch” is enough🍓


Let's start together, one step at a time, by building the foundation!


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Thank you so much for reading this far💖


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🌼Zero guilt! My 15 minutes created by “chores I don't do”
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