Thinking about "Mutual Following." On the ideal way to connect
Hello! Good evening!
This is Aihiro.
When writing on note,
"Mutual following"is something
you probably think about.
"I'm really worried about mutual following"I don't think there's anyone who says that (lol).
This time, I've summarized my thoughts on that theme of "mutual following".
Mutual following is a "signal of mutual empathy and interaction"
First, regarding following,
whether on note or other social media...
Following someone = strongly implies empathy, trust, and support
Regarding the other person's focus of expression,if it strongly implies empathy, trust, and support, I think it's totally OK to follow without seeking anything in return!I think.
What about "mutual following"?
I don't think mutual following is meaningless either.
"I like this person's way of thinking"
"I can get inspiration from their content"
I think mutual following to foster intimacy and interaction with such "someone who moved your heart" is one of the forms that should be encouraged.
When you want to build that kind of relationship, I think it's also OK to follow them yourself and reach out to them.
Also,when you create a new account and have few followers, I think it's OK to use mutual following to expand awareness!I think.
It's hard to get noticed at first, after all.
Points to note about mutual following
What I think is,once you have a certain number of followers, you should be careful about relying only on mutual following just to increase numbersI think.
If you do that, in the end,the interaction of sharing important human emotions will decreaseright.
"Mutual following just to get the numbers up" tends to lead to thinner relationships...
Is it content I can support and empathize with?
Are they active continuously?
Is there pleasant interaction?
Having such a criterion for judgment allows you to protect both your time and your feelings.
"Following others by creating your own rules without forcing it" is the best approach.
You can also think of mutual following as an "entrance to meeting someone."
Mutual following is, after all, just the initial spark.
After following, relationships grow little by little through the exchange of "comments" and "likes."
Eventually, if you become"a relationship where you can enjoy and support each other's posts," you can truly call each other friends.
From there, it is a fact that various interactions can expand, such as talking via video chat or meeting in person.
Mutual following is not something you do out of obligation.
It is a sign in the form of trust, empathy, and support.
"I want to see more of this person's world" I believe that by cherishing people you feel this way about mutually, a relationship that can be maintained comfortably is born.
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