Accumulation Note | The World I Truly Desire ~What's Wrong with Adults Loving Themselves Too!~

Can you say that you
love yourself?

At the very least, until
quite recently, I
did not think I liked myself.

I thought, 'Is liking yourself being a narcissist?' and
I was always worried about how I was perceived.

I only ever noticed
my bad points and things I wasn't good at.

I think there are many children who
tend to think that way
once they start to become aware of the world.

So, what about small children? My
three-and-a-half-year-old daughter always

expresses her 'I want to try this!' feelings
fully, even if adults try to stop her,

and no matter how quickly those around her get ready,
she gets ready at her own slow pace,

and when she's playing with her dolls,
she sticks to her own unique world view.

Don't you think that's something you can only do
if you love yourself?

How many of us adults can immediately
take action on things we 'want to try'?
Moreover,
how many people can do it even if it means going against opposition,
and how many can do it without caring about the eyes of those around them?

Also,when those around you have finished getting ready early,
how many people can get ready slowly without feeling rushed at all?

Furthermore, when immersed in their own world,
even if there are people around,
how many people can express what they love
without any shame?

You can't do that unless you
truly love yourself.

But, people often say it, don't they?

It really is like that, and
deep down, everyone
has the feeling of
loving themselves.

And yet, they don't show it.

No, they can't show it.

Because they are worried about what others think.

Why do you think that is?

It's because they don't
fully believe in themselves from the heart.

Would you mind
listening to a story from my past?

When I was an aesthetician under a service contract,
I worked under a certain owner.

Since I had little experience as an aesthetician,
I consulted with the owner about how to increase the number of buyers.

Then,
the owner said, "Acha-san, you should ask various people."
and I thought that was true, so

I went to ask various people for advice.
Owners of other shops in the same chain,
seniors who were selling well,
I went to get a lot, a lot of criticism.

But then, I would be told this.

"Try asking your owner once, too, Acha-san."

When that happened,
I didn't know who I should ask for the answer anymore,
and in the end, I was serving customers while feeling completely indecisive.

Don't you all have experiences like this?
For example, when you think, "I don't know how to make this document!"

even if you ask a senior,
"I think this is fine, but check with your boss,"
and when you check with your boss,
"If your senior taught you that, isn't that fine?"

In the end, I couldn't find the answer I was looking for,
and I proceeded while wondering if this was okay.

Why do you think we fall into that kind of thinking?

It's because we are afraid of "deciding" for ourselves or "taking responsibility," and we don't want to do it.

That was exactly me, and
even though choosing the path of an esthetician
and deciding to work under the owner
should have been entirely my own responsibility,

this isn't how it was supposed to be,
I thought they would pay more attention to me.

Those kinds of feelings kept welling up, and
I was always afraid to trust my own instincts,
so I avoided it.

It's true that the term "doing it your own way"
has an image of constant failure, but
as long as you are looking for the "correct answer" from others,
no matter how many different people you ask,
there is no way you will ever get the answer.

If that's the case, trusting yourself from the heart
and trying and failing
is definitely a much faster way to move forward.

I want to reduce the number of adults who hesitate
to engage in that kind of trial and error.

You should feel free to try more,
and I want you to trust your own instincts.

Because, once I myself
became able to trust myself,
I finally started to feel that "life is easier."

Once you decide to trust yourself,
the responsibility certainly becomes heavier.

But,you are responsible for yourself,
and above all, don't you want to gain confidence?

Don't lament that you lack confidence;
decide to become a person who has confidence.

Then, the burden will suddenly lift,
you will naturally start to like yourself,
and your joys, angers, sorrows, and pleasures will come out straight.

And, if many adults were like that,
don't you think it would become easier for children to live too?

Children today
are too concerned with those around them.

But, the ones creating that environment
are us adults.

That is why we must start by changing adults.

That is why I
want to change such adults
and keep changing myself as well.

I truly believe this from the bottom of my heart.

A workshop to increase the number of such adults
starts on 5/14 at 22:00.

If you are interested,
please just
join the open chat and wait for updates.

It is okay, because you will definitely
be able to love yourself.

Starting in June, I will launch my very first note membership!

To help you understand yourself, build an unwavering sense of self, and keep taking action, I plan to provide paid articles based on my experiences and learning

2-3 times a monthalong with interaction in a LINE open chat(optional)The price will be 330 yen per month.
I would be very happy if you could look forward to it!