[Read/Listen in 1 Minute] The Keyword in Parenting: What Does 'Scolding' Mean?
There is a surprisingly simple answer to the problem of 'how to scold,' which worries many parenting generations.
The essence of scolding is to teach a child the correct behavior, which is completely different from getting angry emotionally.
It is important to convey what is not good in concrete terms according to the child's developmental stage, as this allows the child to reflect on their own actions.
According to experts, it is important to caution the 'behavior' when scolding, and not to deny the 'personality'.
For example, by focusing on the behavior, such as saying 'Throwing toys is dangerous, so let's stop,' the child can understand what the problem is.
Also, when scolding, it must be done on the spot; by not missing the timing, the child can clearly connect their actions with the results.
Follow-up after scolding is also important; by accepting the child's feelings and thinking about solutions together, it leads to more effective learning.
Appropriate scolding is an important opportunity to foster a child's self-esteem and help them acquire social skills.
When you become emotional, try to take a deep breath and pause; parents should also strive for self-control.
Scolding is a form of expressing love and is an essential way of interacting for a child's growth.
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