Deciding what not to do makes life easier

・Cutting back on sleep

Whether for work or hobbies. I used to think that looked cool or glamorous. That was back in my younger days. There was also a bit of a Japanese cultural trend, I suppose.

Now, it's just impossible!!

I don't have the stamina, and it's a straight path to ruining my health. I pulled an all-nighter once and felt the effects for a whole month. There's no point in working hard at the expense of your health. There were times I stayed up for social reasons (like phone calls) with friends. I was pushing myself way too hard. Half the time, I was barely conscious. Besides, I'm not a night person to begin with. Now, when I'm sleepy, I sleep. If people say I'm not good at keeping up with social obligations, I don't care. I've adopted that attitude. Putting myself first.

・Not reacting immediately

There are many patterns to this, but there are very few things that actually require an "immediate" reaction. Unless it involves life or livelihood. Invitations from others, for example. I feel the pressure to decide quickly, but I don't decide impulsively. I set my own deadlines (rules) and provide a proper answer.

Impulse buying was exactly that. It's mostly gone now, but I think I was just being swayed by information. I calmly examine whether something is necessary for me. I don't get carried away by limited-time offers.

・Not being a "nice person"

Specifically, not being a pushover. I don't go out of my way to be overly friendly or fawn over others. Of course, I make an effort to treat people with moderation and respect.

I'll add more as I think of them.

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